Homecoming!
A new wave of college graduates is washing ashore, fresh diplomas in hand, suitcases still dusty from that epic “finding themselves” trip to Europe, Southeast Asia, or probably Disney. These young adults are now returning to their home parishes with new jobs, new dreams, and a new lease on life. And while they might not be able to navigate a 401(k) just yet, they’re certainly trying to figure out where they belong in the Church.
This is one of those critical handoff moments. Campus ministries have been pulling their weight, forming tight-knit communities that talk theology over coffee and live out the faith in powerful ways. But now, the young adults they’ve nurtured are back in the parish pews, scanning the bulletin and waiting to be seen. Parishes, take note: this is your moment to pick up the baton.
Here are a few things to keep in mind:
First, these young adults have made the brave choice to show up for Mass. That’s no small feat, especially when the temptation to sleep in is so very real. Now it’s up to you, dear parish, to summon that same courage and go talk to them. Don’t let them slip in and out unnoticed. A simple “hello” can go a long way.
Second, remember that these young adults might be coming home to family situations that aren’t as faith-filled as their beloved campus communities. They’re navigating a world that’s telling them to hustle, hustle, hustle, often with little mention of Christ in the equation. Your parish can be that quiet anchor of stability, a place where they’re reminded that the faith they practiced in college still has a home here, too.
Third, they’re looking for community. It’s practically encoded in their DNA at this point. If they don’t find it in your parish, they’ll find it somewhere else. We can’t afford to treat them like a passing curiosity. These are the future leaders, parents, and saints in the making. Young adults become young families.
Finally, let’s be real, these young adults are on the move. They might be here for a few weeks or a few years, depending on where that next job opportunity takes them. Engage them anyway. Show them that their presence matters, that you notice when they’re there, and that you’re genuinely glad to have them.
This homecoming is more than just a chance to say “welcome back”. It’s a chance to prove that we’re a people who pay attention, who see the individuals in our pews, and who genuinely care. We don’t have to roll out a red carpet or start a whole new program (though if you’re feeling ambitious, I won’t stop you). But we do have to make the effort to see and engage.
After all, faith is meant to be lived in community. And if we want these young adults to keep coming back, we need to make sure they feel like this is home. Because at the end of the day, that’s what we’re called to be: a family of faith, a home for the wanderers, and a place where every young adult can find their place in the pews.
